In exactly 10 years from now, when my Smudge turns 18 years old and is itching to flee the nest her daddy and I have so happily crafted for her, there will be a flood of memories that will make the separation just a little bit easier.
Narrowing those memories down to a list of even the top 50 is nearly impossible. But I can certainly try. At the top of that list so far would be: The snuggles she shares with us each and every morning in “the big bed”; Swing dancing about the living room as we belt out One Direction songs in our pre-teen, boy-band dance-a-thons; The smell of her strawberry red hair that frames her sweetly freckled pug nose.
There will be plenty of other memories that will emerge over the next decade, new flights of fancy that will bump one or two award winners from the top ten list. And I can’t wait for all of us to experience each and every one of them together.
But when I think about my girl and her pre-teen years I will always be struck by the amazingly strong friendships she’s already developed at this oh-so-young of an age. I seriously don’t remember having such a gaggle of besties before hitting the halls of junior high school as a 5’10” 7th grader whose best friends topped out at 5’4”. At least she and I will have that in common.
Smudge and her pals are an energetic and creative group who are all about gathering at our house. Hello to pre-teen “hang outs.” Goodbye to “play-dates” that are so first grade.
Dress up, role-playing and lots of boy-band music, this exact scenario honestly happens just about weekly at our house. I had to capture it on video because soon enough they’ll have moved onto yet another pre-teen lark.
This time around, the plans have been set, the invitations have been made and the dresses have been chosen. These ladies are nothing if not detail oriented.
Now all that’s left is to put the guests in their places and share a chocolate-flavored toast to Pippa’s big day.
There are three things that are always at the center of these lady’s time together at Casa del Larsen:
1. Snacks and drinks (duh, they’re kids)
2. Directing the dogs (because they can)
and
2. Dreaming about what life will be like when they’re older (ahem, they’re pre-teens)
Thankfully through this video, their childhood stories are not only imprinted in my memory bank, but will be reflected upon right before my eyes as many times as I want—or need—to remember their youthful 8-year-old lives.
And that makes me very happy. Cheers!
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Sommer@ASpicyPerspective
Heidi! I don’t know how I missed this when you first posted it, but OH MY WORD!! You are a creative genius and I’m so glad to call you my friend. Merry Christmas!
:) Thanks Sommer
Davina Sanchez
Congratulations Pippa and Skippy Jon Jones! Lovely Wedding!
Kristy @ Sweet Treats & More
Oh my gosh this video is so cute! and so beautifully shot!!
Lauren
So beautifully shot :) Reminds me of being a little girl with tons of fancy boas! <3 I'm interested though, what kind of camera did you use? The shots are beautiful! Cheers
<3 Lauren
katie
Ahhh Heidi–this is so dang cute! Beautiful video!
Kathy @ Food Wine Thyme
Adorable, simply adorable. Your daughter will be so glad to have this to look back at when she’s older.
julie
That is darling. As a mom to a soon to be 2nd grader…this makes me cry happy. And Smudge is a real beauty…like her mama.
Chung-Ah | Damn Delicious
Awwww too stinking cute! I enjoyed every second of it – from the dress up on the dogs to the fancy dresses of the girls. It was so adorable! Now I need to get me 3 dogs, and tell Jason that we need to start having kids! :)
patti
I can’t begin to tell you how much I loved the video, I was laughing through the tears in my eyes.
I am so very proud of you, you continue to amaze me. What a fabulous parade of adorable ones.
Cheers to Silk.
Tesei
I love this post! Congratulations for such a lovely family, thank you for sharing!!!!
Adrienne k
All that’s missing are the candy cigarettes and it’s me when I was little!